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The 8 basic Needs of People

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Leadership has been defined as “the ability to influence people through inspiration, generated by a passion, which can only be created from a God given purpose.” We should always be in a perpetual state of growing and developing as leaders. Leadership means, seeing yourself as a resource for other people’s success. That reflects a mandate of embracing a serious responsibility of leaving something for the next generation.

I have come to understand that people have eight basic needs. If you are going to lead people well, these eight things can help you.

People need eight essential things to keep them going:

  1. Affirmation/Encouragement  – encouragement is like oxygen to the soul.
  2. Appreciation or praise  – Create an atmosphere of approval.
  3. Recognition or Attention  – “Be more concerned about making others feel good about themselves than you are in making others feel good about you.” John C. Maxwell
  4. Inspiration –  Tony Robbins asserted, “Motivation doesn’t work!” People need to be inspired to change.
  5. Compensation or reward  – pay peanuts you get monkeys.
  6. Comprehension or understanding – People want to be listened to.
  7. Reconciliation or forgiveness – A lot of people are broken or come from broken families. Unconditional and unlimited forgiveness help to heal the broken areas of our lives.
  8. Enthusiasm.   – The Greek word for enthusiasm is “En Theos,” God within ness. People need a spiritual guide to navigate through the issues of life, to accomplish the essentials of life.

Always remember, no human being can validate your sense of self-worth. To find out the purpose for your life, you must go back to the creator of your life. God’s commentary is this: Colossians 1:16 (Msg) “I am your creator you were in my care even before you were born.”

If we will keep standing on the Rock, we’ll always be safe and secure in Him.

 
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Posted by on August 2, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

Bass Reeves US Marshal

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Being the sort of history buff that I am, I wanted to take the opportunity to introduce you to the first black Deputy U.S. Marshal west of the Mississippi River. Bass Reeves.  Mr. Reeves’ story is absolutely astounding. During his long career, he was credited with arresting more than 3,000 felons and bringing them to justice. He is also credited with killing 14 outlaws in self-defense.

Born into slavery in July of 1838, Bass Reeves is better known as the original “Lone Ranger.” There were no sidekicks named, Tonto, and his stellar career must be kept in the annals of time and history. Freed by the Thirteenth Amendment, which abolished slavery in 1865, Reeves settled in Arkansas, had 11 children, and farmed near Van Buren.

But law enforcement was his real passion. There are a plethora of things that can be said about the life of Bass Reeves. I’d like to add my voice to the legacy of a man that many have never read about or considered in the Real West.

Marshal Bass Reeves lives in the hearts of every rugged man that will “boldly go where no man has gone before”, and sometimes, alone. The characteristics of courage, grit, honor, fearlessness, and a bold appreciation for what’s right, helped to define this modern day Apostle of Justice.

And if we must have hero’s, why not consider a freedom fighter and lawman who carried a six shooter and towered over his enemies with a profound intelligence and keen marksmanship. Leadership has been defined as: “The ability to influence others to follow through inspiration.” Marshal Reeves encouraged people to follow through the confidence of his good shooting finger.

The real steering wheel inside of Bass Reeves, was his gargantuan heart that beat inside his chest when at rest, 144 times a minute. The human average is 72. Myth.

When Jim Crow laws prohibited Bass Reeves from continuing as a US Marshal, he joined the Muskogee, Oklahoma Police Department and served faithfully there until his passing.

In 2011, the US 62 bridge, which spans the Arkansas River between Muskogee and Fort Gibson, Oklahoma, was named as the Bass Reeves Memorial Bridge. How fitting for a man who’s life bridged the gap between notorious outlaws and the calm backdrop of the wild, wild west.  “Bad News for Outlaws,” that Bass Reeves was born. The good news for the pop culture generation, is that he will never be forgotten.

Keep standing on the Rock!

For more information, visit the Bass Reeves Western History Conference July 21st and 22nd, 2017 – The Three Rivers Museum 220 Elgin Avenue, Muskogee, Oklahoma

 
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Posted by on July 7, 2017 in Black Economics, History

 

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The Fourth of July

Independence Day in the United States of America commemorates the adoption of the Declaration of Independence of 1776.  The day that the thirteen American colonies regarded themselves as thirteen newly independent sovereign states, no long under British rule.

The Declaration explained why Congress had voted to declare independence from great Britain.  One of the greatest documents ever written, the essence of it’s meaning is found in line two of the draft:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”

This would include the “unalienable” right to freedom.  When the scriptures say that Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, that includes poverty, sickness, and death, I think of the purchased price of our redemption.

In America today, we are divided among many racial, political, and social-economic lines. I believe for us to function as a community, we must realize that unity is essential. You wouldn’t find this in Webster’s Dictionary, but UNITY is spelled, “You and I Tie.” What a powerful definition.

The Great Northern Geese give us a powerful example of working together: they fly in the “V” formation because flying in this formation is 70% more efficient than flying alone. The birds honk from behind to encourage the other birds to keep flying and keep up the pace. What a great lesson in working together.

We must continue to work together; to live together; and to stand together; And, to keep honking for our fellowman. The power to encourage others and to embrace what is different, sets us apart as God’s creation.

I dedicate this Independence Day to the families of all of our fallen First Responders, and to the families of Mr. Martin, Mr. Brown, Mr. Gray, Mr. Crutcher, and Mr. Castile. May we continue to remember our Unalienable right to freedom, life, liberty, and happiness. And oh yes, the freedom to take a simple walk down the street.

Happy fourth of July and Keep standing on the Rock!!

 

 

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No More Fear

The presence of fear can indicate a sense of impending danger, emotional stress or pain, whether the threat is real or imagined. The anxiety of fear can have a paralyzing and debilitating affect on those that will yield to it’s invading power. I heard an acronym for the word fear that really helped me years ago; F.alse E.vidence A.ppearing R.eal.

Many times the thing that we fear, never happens. When I was a kid, there was always a great relief when the creepy fingers of the monster outside my window, turned out to be the limbs on the tree in my front yard. Yikes! Yet the fear of failure, or spiders; Or the fear of falling; the fear of rooms, feels real for many people.  I was on an airplane recently and an older lady asked if I could open the window a little because she had a phobia of being closed in. My immediate thought was apparently she keeps getting back on the plane!

Eleanor Roosevelt once declared, “Do the thing that you fear, and the death of fear is certain.”  What a powerful declaration to those that struggle in the face of fear.  Claude Bristol in The Magic of Believing, revealed that thoughts become reality because of our subconscious mind, which produces our feelings, instincts, and actions.

What we focus on, is what’s growing in our lives. Focus can bring about fear if we’re focusing on the wrongs things.  Thomas Edison said, “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

One great chapter of my mentors book, Failing Forward, by John C. Maxwell, is called “If you’ve failed, are you a failure.” The answer is a resounding, NO! In the seven abilities needed to fail forward, point number one is: Achievers reject rejection. (Read Failing Forward for the other six points)

Someone else’s opinion of you never has to become your reality.  If you have to do something afraid, I say do it anyways.  You can declare no more fear in your life because you simply did the thing that you feared.

“Fear makes come true that which one is afraid of.”  – Victor Frankl

Keep standing on the Rock!

 

 
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Posted by on June 1, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

The Best Steps Toward Your Success

I had the privilege  of dropping some knowledge on the 2017 graduating class of The Choose Life DEEP Bible Training Center this past week. Forrest Gump reminded the world that, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you get.” I never approach life from the Forrest Gump perspective. According to the word of God, we get what the word says is ours.

In the book of life, Romans the 12th chapter reminds us that we are changed by the renewal of our minds. Having the right thoughts and thinking in line with God’s words, helps to keep you and I on the road to success.

Here are The Best Steps Toward your path to success:

  1. preparation. Preparation time is never wasted time. In farming, laying the ground work is one of the most important parts of the process. Prepare early.
  2. Persistence. Someone called persistence, “The iron quality of success.” Galatians 6:9 the message translation says, “we will harvest a good crop if we don’t give up or quit.”
  3. Right thinking. Leadership requires mental reconditioning. We must THINK in line with the principles that make us strong. The Psalmist David said, “Thy word is a light unto my path.”
  4. Right talking.  Proverbs 6:2 says we are snared by the words of our mouths. In other words, watch negative talk. The word snare means, a noose for small game. Our words can be considered to be a small thing, but what a big impact they have on our destiny.
  5. Make a commitment to grow daily.  Remember, we grow daily not in a day. King David once again said, “I will sing so I can daily perform my vows.” And growing is a daily commitment to change what I am doing.
  6. Stay humble.  The road to success involves the perspective of helping others. Zig Ziglar placed this nugget on the road to success: “You can have anything in life you want if you help enough people get what they want.” Humility is simply measuring yourself against a higher nature.
  7. Use whatever gifts you have to serve others.  “Service is the rent we pay for our room here on earth. Man is a traveler, and the purpose of life is not to have and hold but to give and to share.” I Tim.4:12 (TLB) Keep a close watch on all you do and think. Stay true to what is right and God will bless you and use you to help others.

 

Congratulations to all of you who have just had a commencement moment or graduation. This commencement  will start a new chapter in your life, to serve your fellow man, to help others win, and to leave a mark that cannot be erased.

Keep standing on the Rock!!

 
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Posted by on May 27, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

Leadership that Connects

One of my many mentors on the great subject of leadership was Dr. Myles Munroe.  I learned something great from one of our generations greatest teachers; “Leadership is not the maintenance of followers but the production of other leaders.” There are many principles involved in helping others to discover their destiny on the road of life.  None more important than finding your gift and serving that to the world.

As leaders, we must be willing to release others into the dimension of God’s divine calling for their lives.  Socrates once said, “The individual leads in order that those who are led can develop their potential as human beings and thereby prosper.”

If that’s not enough, embrace the thought that the leader is the servant who removes the obstacles that prevent people from doing their jobs.  Dr. Edwards Deming believed that there were many ways to connect with people and maintain quality control in any endeavor. The task of turning human frailties into genius and abounding progress, requires minds that are brilliant, and hearts that have a proclivity in the habitual inclination for producing leaders of excellence.

“The job of the leader is to create a complimentary team, where every strength is made effective and each weakness is made irrelevant.” Here’s what I know:  Momentum provides the energy for needed change.  Connecting with people, means caring about the things that they embrace as significant. Because, people don’t care about how much you know, until they know how much you care.

“Great leaders measure themselves by what they get done through others. That requires developing people in a leadership culture.” And, if we’re going to have any lasting success, it must be as a result of connecting, embracing, and trusting others, to bring to the table what only they can bring, THEMSELVES.

Connecting is all about others and goes beyond words, which means, it requires energy. when you’ve given others your best effort, look around and keep standing on the Rock!!

 
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Posted by on November 16, 2016 in Uncategorized

 

Pray For Our Nation

With this year’s presidential election looming, don’t forget about the 54 million evangelical Christians that stayed home last year and did not vote.  We have some serious issues to pray out in our nation.  Charles Finney once said, “It seems as if God is limited by our prayer life.  He can do nothing for humanity unless someone ask him.”

President George W. Bush declared over our nation, “Throughout our history, Americans of faith have always turned to prayer – for wisdom, prayer for resolve, prayers for compassion and strength, prayers for commitment to justice and for a spirit of forgiveness.”

“Since America’s founding, prayer has reassured us that the hand of God is guiding the affairs of this nation.  We have never asserted a special claim on His favor, yet we’ve always believed in God’s presence in our lives.”

We must continue that belief in the power of God and in the power of prayer. Get to the polls and cast your vote in this year’s election!

James 5:16 amp. – “The earnest heartfelt, continued prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available dynamic in its working.” You an I must continue the pursuit of prayer if our nation will continue to honor God and walk in it’s greatness.

Cast your vote and Keep standing on the Rock!!

 
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Posted by on October 18, 2016 in Uncategorized